Cruising for sex takes a while to get the hang of. It’s a mixture of instinct, knowledge, and skill to find the right guy, in the right place, at the right time. The tips below will help you cruise more successfully, and ultimately meet more hot guys and have better hookups.
Keep Putting Yourself Out There to Find the Best Times for Hooking Up
Don’t let one or two failed attempts at cruising get you down. It may have just been the time that you visited the location that affected your cruising. Try again and see if your luck gets better. When in doubt, check the Squirt.org cruising listings for the busiest times of day.
Use Body Language to Signal that You’re Interested
People won’t know you’re seeking gay sex unless you give them a hint. Non-verbal cues are vital. Eye contact is the first indicator of sexual interest, and strong mutual eye contact is a sign to move to the next level. If he’s checking you out, keep indicating your interest and gradually close the space between you. Position yourself so he can get a good look at your body, and he’ll get the message pretty quickly. Wearing snug pants without underwear is a great way to show off your assets.
Know the Routine for Different Cruising Spots
Different cruising spots can have slightly different routines and etiquette for starting a hookup. For example, gay bathhouses and saunas have non-verbal cues for hooking up. Sitting in a sauna naked and making eye contact with a guy, for instance, is the best way to let him know you’re interested. In a general area in a bathhouse, making eye contact and stroking your dick shows someone you want them and stopping jerking off shows disinterest. Places like buddy booths in porn theatres are not good places to have extended conversation, since you could disrupt others having fun in the adjacent booths. The best way to find out about a specific location is to join Squirt.org for free. Our users have given the details on how to cruise at specific places in your neighbourhood.